妇女社会部至今所推出的援助金计划

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妇女社会部至今所推出的援助金计划

1. 贫穷家庭儿童院援助金（BKK）

条件：正在照顾年幼子女的贫穷家庭成长，每月家庭收入低于720零吉。

援助金：每个小孩每月可获援助100零吉，家庭成员超过4个小孩者，所获援助金顶额为450零吉。

2. 乐龄人士援助金（BOT）

条件：60岁以上老人、单身或无人照顾者、无工作能力及无家庭者。

援助金：每月援助300零吉。

3. 残疾人士工作津贴（EPC）

条件：自雇或受雇者，个人每月收入1200零吉以下，没有在慈善机构居住及获享有免费膳食和衣物者，必须出示雇主证明或薪水单。

援助金：每月300零吉

4. 看护卧病在床残疾人士援助/看护长时间卧床病人援助（Penjaga OKU）

条件：24小时照顾卧病在床的残疾亲友，家庭收入每月不超过3000零吉，本身照顾而不是聘请佣人代劳。

援助金：每月300零吉。

5. 义肢/辅助器援助

条件：必须是已向福利局注册的残障人士，必须由政府医院或医药专家推介，每月收入少于500零吉，或是没有能力购买自用义肢/辅助器者。

援助金：购买义肢、拐杖、轮椅、助听器、特制眼睛、特制鞋及由医生或医药专家建议的器材。

dear reader

o God... I been "abandon" my blog for so long!!

sorry to those who read my blog...

sorry sorry sorry...

i will try to update it... will try....

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

Those who are still single may learn something from here.
Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage...
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything.

That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, could drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.

This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love."

Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable… You can "make" love

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: "God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."

So, spent your lifetime finding out the loveable things about your spouse so that you could LOVE your spouse everyday in every way in an EVERLASTING marriage. Remember, you are with the "RIGHT" person. If not, you wouldn't have wanted to marry your spouse in the first place.

No more questions!!!

my dream girl

that's so many pretty girls in this world... really a lot...

just my church already has many pretty girl.

of course many pretty girls also attract my attention, i can't deny it.

but i only saw one girl that is so pretty,

when the time i see her, i already feel that,

she is my dream girl,

she is so beautiful,

she is so charming,

she is so kind,

she is so artistic,

she is so hot,

she is so......

i been attract by her deeply...

I fall in love with her le~

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I love u

My birthday

29/09/2009

I think this is the most special birthday for myself. My bao bei purposely go and learn how to cook, she cook mutton, spaghetti and salad (but i dun eat hahaha)

Ok this is the first time she really cook (she dunno how to cook 1). in fact wat surprised me is, the foods are so delicious... everyone are praising for it...

but wat really touched me is the effort she put... purposely go and learn how to cook from her colleague, then she start to cook at midnight... she wanna surprised me just that we can't find a place for both of us... at last she has to tell me... hehehe... but i really feel so touched... maybe for some people this no big deal, but it means a lot to me.

I feel loved.

this is the mutton... wow really delicious...

spaghetti... i eat till half way only take photos lol

in fact i forget to took on the actual day... lucky she still keep some in house :)

i thought after all these, it's end (forgot to take salad's photo,in fact i didn't eat hahaha)

but something surprised me!

Yes her hand made cake!!

TQ sweet heart, I love you so much.

Johnson is superman?

Johnson is flying~~~

Get ready... 3.. 2.. 1..

Fly~~~

And hold...

is he a superman? but he can only fly... lol

A letter from a baby girl to her mother

Dear Mommy,

I am in Heaven now, sitting on Jesus' lap.

He loves me and cries with me; for my heart has been broken.

I so wanted to be your little girl. I don't quite understand what has happened.

I was so excited when I began realizing my existence.

I was in a dark, yet comfortable place. I saw I had fingers and toes.

I was pretty far along in my developing, yet not near ready to leave my surroundings.

I spent most of my time thinking or sleeping.

Even from my earliest days, I felt a special bonding between you and me.

Sometimes I heard you crying and I cried with you. Sometimes you would yell or scream, then cry.

I heard Daddy yelling back.

I was sad, and hoped you would be better soon.

I wondered why you cried so much. One day you cried almost all of the day.

I hurt for you. I couldn't imagine why you were so unhappy.

That same day, the most horrible thing happened.

A very mean monster came into that warm, comfortable place I was in.

I was so scared, I began screaming, but you never once tried to help me.

Maybe you never heard me.

The monster got closer and closer as I was screaming and screaming,

"Mommy, Mommy, help me please; Mommy, help me."

Complete terror is all I felt.

I screamed and screamed until I thought I couldn't anymore.
Then the monster started ripping my arms off.

It hurt so bad; the pain I can never explain.

It didn't stop. Oh, how I begged it to stop.

I screamed in horror as it ripped my leg off.

Though I was in such complete pain, I was dying.

I knew I would never see your face or hear you say how much you love me.

I wanted to make all your tears go away.

I had so many plans to make you happy.

Now I couldn't; all my dreams were shattered.

Though I was in utter pain and horror, I felt the pain of my heart breaking, above all.

I wanted more than anything to be your daughter.

No use now, for I was dying a painful death.

I could only imagine the terrible things that they had done to you.

I wanted to tell you that I love you before I was gone, but I didn't know the words you could understand.

And soon, I no longer had the breath to say them; I was dead.

I felt myself rising. I was being carried by a huge angel into a big beautiful place.

I was still crying, but the physical pain was gone.

The angel took me to Jesus and set me on His lap.

He said He loved me, and He was my Father. Then I was happy. I asked Him what the thing was that killed me. He answered, "Abortion.

I am sorry, my child; for I know how it feels."

I don't know what abortion is;

I guess that's the name of the monster.

I'm writing to say that I love you and to tell you how much I wanted to be your little girl.

I tried very hard to live.

I wanted to live. I had the will, but I couldn't; the monster was too powerful.

It sucked my arms and legs off and finally got all of me. It was impossible to live.

I just wanted you to know I tried to stay with you.

I didn't want to die.

Also, Mommy, please watch out for that abortion monster.

Mommy, I love you and I would hate for you to go through the kind of pain I did.

Please be careful.

Love,

Your Baby Girl